My mother-in-law brings out the absolute worst in me. I try to be a positive person, but she is so determined for me to be brought down a few notches.

Recently, every time she comes over to visit the baby, she says “I’m sorry it’s been so tough for you.” EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. I’ve never once indicated that parenthood is tough. It’s like she is gaslighting me into thinking it is or something.

She hates that I am enjoying this and that I’m independent.

I’m not sure why her saying this bothers me so much. I just want to enjoy postpartum without having other’s negativity projected onto me.

I was never really a complainer before her and I realize she is bringing out the worst in me. Sure, I may complain about my husband here or there or say something a snap judgment once in a while, but I’m not a mean person. She wants to bring me to her level and I can’t give in.

I need to attract positive energy towards me. So, I have to rise above and focus on the things in my life I am grateful for. Starting with the best little snuggler in the world!

What are things you are grateful for?